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Books by Theme » Back to School » The Day You Begin & Activities for the First Week of School!

The Day You Begin & Activities for the First Week of School!

By Lauren Bercuson ·  Published: Aug 31, 2018 ·  Modified: Jan 21, 2023 ·  This post may contain affiliate links

The Day You Begin book, by Jacqueline Woodson, will forever be one of my favorites to read with students during the first week of school. If you are looking for a story to help calm back-to-school jitters, The Day You Begin is a must-read!

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Table of Contents:
  1. The Day You Begin book is a remarkable story for the first week of school
  2. The Day You Begin reminds us to seek out similarities rather than focusing on our differences!
  3. The Day You Begin book my favorite classroom activity
  4. The Day You Begin is the perfect book to begin a new school year!
  5. Frequently Asked Questions

The Day You Begin book is a remarkable story for the first week of school

So many of us have stood in that uncomfortable spot, right there in the doorway, about to enter a room where the blanket of faces staring back at you look wholly different from your own. It is a feeling bound to make your stomach hurt – especially when you’re only a child.

At that moment, all we see are the differences in those people: different skin colors and eye shapes, different clothing – even different accents when they begin to speak. What we forget during these challenging situations, however, and what we need to remind our kids, is that underneath these different exteriors lie a multitude of similarities.

This is the beauty of Jacqueline Woodson’s The Day You Begin book, stunningly illustrated by Rafael Lopez (you may remember him from one of my favorite books, Maybe Something Beautiful).  The Day You Begin tells the story of a young girl who walks into a new classroom and finds no one like her.  But then she sits down,  her classmates begin talking, and as their words fill the air, shared sentiments become bridges to building connections.

RELATED: We’ve got a fantastic selection of first day of school books to help young kids calm their jitters. Check them out!

The Day You Begin reminds us to seek out similarities rather than focusing on our differences!

The Day You Begin reads like music, with rich melodies that rouse your senses and settle softly upon your heart. It begins with a young girl peeking nervously into a new classroom, where she sees no one quite like herself.

An internal spread from The Day You Begin book.

The other children look different. They have different experiences, different lunches, and even different summer adventures. They giggle uncomfortably at the unfamiliar, at the things they don’t understand, until the teacher quiets everyone down.

An internal spread from The Day You Begin book.

Eventually, though, the kids start sharing stories. And as they speak, the nervous little girl sees herself in their words. Their stories bridge divides, foster connection, and help the kids feel less alone. The young girl eventually feels brave.

Woodson’s words in The Day You Begin book, as is typical for her, are a song to celebrate. She reassures us that when we are brave enough we can all find connections with one another.

An internal spread from The Day You Begin book.

When we discover our inner courage and extend our hands and voices, we will find possibilities where it once seemed like none existed.

An internal spread from The Day You Begin book.

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The Day You Begin book conveys wisdom, hope, and heart, on vibrant, collaged pages that are a perfect accompaniment to the exquisite text. This is a book to treasure, reminding both children and adults that there is so much beauty to be found when we embrace who we are and find the strength to view challenges as opportunities.

We give this one two trunks up, and we have no hesitation in calling The Day You Begin book an absolute MUST for every home, classroom, and library collection.

The Day You Begin book: my favorite classroom activity

Are you looking for a simple yet effective classroom activity for the first week of school? Try this!

First, group students in pairs of two – if possible, pair up kids who aren’t already good friends. Give the class two minutes, and have them silently write down five things they notice about their classmate that appear different from themselves — whatever comes to mind.

Next, read The Day You Begin book aloud to the class. After you read, have the students pair back up again and this time, give them some time to talk about their summers – what they did, who they spent time with, anything they want to share.

After this chat session, give them a couple more minutes to write silently. This time, each student should write down five ways in which they are similar to their classmate.

Finally — discuss your findings as a group! How did the similarities make the differences seem unimportant? What kinds of connections were made? How did sharing with a classmate help bridge divides?

RELATED: Looking for great kindergarten read-alouds? Check them out at the link!

The Day You Begin is the perfect book to begin a new school year!

Use this beautiful story to showcase the beauty of looking beyond external differences, and watch as your students enter a new school with open eyes, compassionate hearts, and a willingness to challenge rash judgments they may make upon first meeting new people.

Want to purchase The Day You Begin? Buy it here!

Frequently Asked Questions

What is the lesson in The Day You Begin?

It is not easy to be yourself in a room full of strangers when you feel so different than others. It takes courage – a lot of it! Yet, when we look past the differences that often make us uncomfortable, we begin to see the many similarities that bind us together.

Can you recommend other good books about feeling anxious?

Yep! We have a great list of books for kids with anxiety that offers different stories that help kids through various nerve-wracking situations (including starting school!)

What grade levels are The Day You Begin appropriate for?

I love this book for kindergarten on up. I typically read it with kindergarten through fourth grades the first week of school!

RELATED: Are your kids starting to read? Check out the best books for beginning readers and these kindergarten books for developing readers!

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